Q. Im not good with women,im 20,im a virgin, im shy, i have no self-confidence, and im ugly. (great list huh?)Iife with out sex is unbearable. Should i just give up and go to a legal brothel in Nevada. Im afraid of being the next 40 year old virgin.
A. Brothels are good at a quick fix, but will never complete the situation.
It is abit like feeling ravenously hungry and having a sweet, soon after you feel ravenous again. Unless you are very rich and can visit the brothel on a daily basis with several love beauties, it is a very temporary answer. If you do visit a brothel there is not a chance of you remaining a virgin.
Forget being ugly, to many women you may be handsome, why ? well if you were good looking and Gods gift, those men have a reputation of loving and leaving, they play the field and have endless women, that if they don't get what the want they move on, leaving a trail of broken hearts behind, the word spreads and women become very wary. Women know full well that the more ugly the man, the more they will have to make the effort, and will continue to make the effort when they have found a partner in order to keep them, because they will have a long wait to find another.
Self confidence comes with effort and money !
Look in the mirror - and decide what needs to be done to improve your looks. What you see is what others see, and it is so easy to think you are worse than you are, another thing is that you are a man, and you are looking in the mirror at another man, so that is why you do not see it from a womans point of view. So a woman might easily see a side of you which you cannot see.
OK you can't change your physical attributes as they were handed to you by your parents, but you can cosmetically alter the detrimental looks.
I used to be like you, but I decided to do something about it. If there is no life - you have to create it yourself ! First women love clean and well dressed men, so appearance is crutial. Get a decent popular hair cut at a proper stylist, get the latest trendy clothes, be seen about town, go to trendy bars, and nightclubs. Have a make over, if you wear glasses, get contact lenzes or your eyes lazered. Work out and improve your muscles, with all this your appearance will transform your ugliness. If you are short get platform trendy shoes to add height.
Advertise in the local papers for a date. Use the Internet dating sites, facebook and others. Don't give up at all until you get what you want.
You can litteraly tick the boxes and describe in detail what your ideal woman and age should be.
Do your homework ! Find out from the lifes experienced what worked for them. Ask your parents, especially your older brothers how they met their partner, how they went about it. If they failed find out why and don't make the same mistakes !
Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to some ugly is beautiful, whereas to others beautiful is ugly !
I think more importantly to a woman the top ten attributes are:
A good sence of humour,
A man who can make you feel like a woman
A man who is not afraid to take charge
A man who can be dominated
A man with a sensitive side
A man who can hold his own
A man who is successful
A man in uniform
A man with a great body
A man with a brain and a good conversationalist
So you know you have alot of homework to do and I hope I have pointed you in the right direction
As for you being the next 40 year old virgin - not a chance if you take my advice.
Best of luck
MIK
It is abit like feeling ravenously hungry and having a sweet, soon after you feel ravenous again. Unless you are very rich and can visit the brothel on a daily basis with several love beauties, it is a very temporary answer. If you do visit a brothel there is not a chance of you remaining a virgin.
Forget being ugly, to many women you may be handsome, why ? well if you were good looking and Gods gift, those men have a reputation of loving and leaving, they play the field and have endless women, that if they don't get what the want they move on, leaving a trail of broken hearts behind, the word spreads and women become very wary. Women know full well that the more ugly the man, the more they will have to make the effort, and will continue to make the effort when they have found a partner in order to keep them, because they will have a long wait to find another.
Self confidence comes with effort and money !
Look in the mirror - and decide what needs to be done to improve your looks. What you see is what others see, and it is so easy to think you are worse than you are, another thing is that you are a man, and you are looking in the mirror at another man, so that is why you do not see it from a womans point of view. So a woman might easily see a side of you which you cannot see.
OK you can't change your physical attributes as they were handed to you by your parents, but you can cosmetically alter the detrimental looks.
I used to be like you, but I decided to do something about it. If there is no life - you have to create it yourself ! First women love clean and well dressed men, so appearance is crutial. Get a decent popular hair cut at a proper stylist, get the latest trendy clothes, be seen about town, go to trendy bars, and nightclubs. Have a make over, if you wear glasses, get contact lenzes or your eyes lazered. Work out and improve your muscles, with all this your appearance will transform your ugliness. If you are short get platform trendy shoes to add height.
Advertise in the local papers for a date. Use the Internet dating sites, facebook and others. Don't give up at all until you get what you want.
You can litteraly tick the boxes and describe in detail what your ideal woman and age should be.
Do your homework ! Find out from the lifes experienced what worked for them. Ask your parents, especially your older brothers how they met their partner, how they went about it. If they failed find out why and don't make the same mistakes !
Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder, to some ugly is beautiful, whereas to others beautiful is ugly !
I think more importantly to a woman the top ten attributes are:
A good sence of humour,
A man who can make you feel like a woman
A man who is not afraid to take charge
A man who can be dominated
A man with a sensitive side
A man who can hold his own
A man who is successful
A man in uniform
A man with a great body
A man with a brain and a good conversationalist
So you know you have alot of homework to do and I hope I have pointed you in the right direction
As for you being the next 40 year old virgin - not a chance if you take my advice.
Best of luck
MIK
How to look, dress more girly?
Q. I am so totaly girly on the inside, i love skirts, dresses, shorts, blouses etc. And i definatly love heels and wedges. I wear wedges to school. And i guess i look alot girly but i wantt to look even more.
A. NOTE: This is a really long article. I am posting the Clothes and Style section here but there is much, much more at the source below, including Grooming, Make-up & Health , Behavior, Tips, Warnings, and Things You'll Need!
Clothes & Style
1 Have a sense of style. Being fashionable is important. Note that this does not necessarily mean "trendy". Try to read more fashion magazines to learn what kinds of clothing go well together. Try teen magazines like Teen Vogue and Seventeen for starters, and if you want to, move on to adult fashion magazines like Elle and In Style. Try mixing and matching the clothes in your closet. The results may not always be great, but you're bound to discover new and cute combinations. Be sure to Have Your Own Style have your own style, because it's not right to wear something that just isn't you. It's often better to have a basic personal style than to always be chasing the latest "fad" look. You could waste hundreds of dollars on clothes just for them to go out of style a few weeks later. When buying clothes to set up your wardrobe, buy the girly girl basics.
2 Slowly add special pieces to to your wardrobe that will accentuate your look. Pink is a typical girl color, but don't shy away from blacks and blues, as they can also look very cute! Your wardrobe should contain:
Light-wash and dark-wash denim skirts
Light-wash and dark-wash shorts
At least one pair of dark-wash skinny jeans.
Six plain tank-tops in the colors: pink, peach, blue, light green, lavender, and white. These will be good for layering or a weekend casual look when paired with shorts or jeans.
Cute panties. (No one will see them, of course. But they will make you feel cute, nonetheless.)
At least three comfortable pairs of shoes: one pair of workout sneakers (a girly girl is never to be seen outside the gym with sneakers), and a couple of pairs of cute shoes (heels, moccasins, flats, sandals, take your pick). Ultimately, a girly girl can never have too many shoes!
Three cute dresses. When shopping for dresses, remember: short or tight, chose only one. Do not pair them both. Go for neutral colors that can be matched with other things for fancy occasions, but also buy colorful and cute sundresses for the summer time!
Use mostly pastel colors, but neutrals go with everything. Have enough clothes in both types of colors to mix and match.
Wear clothing that fits. Don't wear low cut jeans if you don't feel comfortable, but make sure your jeans fit you and are not tight or baggy. A belt is okay, but the fit says it all. Try on lots of brands, styles, cuts, and sizes. Not every size jean will fit the same, depending on the brand. The same goes with shirts. Not tight, not baggy. If your shirt is so tight you can see your bra or you have trouble getting your shirt off of your back, then it's too tight. To see if the shirt is too small, raise your arms up. If your stomach shows when you do this, then the shirt is excessively short! Things like camisoles are supposed to fit tight however.
Remember, you don't have to buy brand name clothing. Brands are just status symbols designed to make people feel superior. Don't get caught up in that behavior, because you really don't have to spend a lot of money to be girly. Just make sure you choose clothing very carefully, so that you don't waste money. On the other hand, if you like something that is affordable and it's a brand name, don't avoid buying it just because you don't want to buy brand names.
3 Good stores to buy girly clothes are:
Forever 21 (trendy clothes and accessories for women and men)
Rue 21 (casual apparel for both women and men)
Wet Seal (moderately priced clothes and accessories for young women)
Charlotte Russe (clothing and accessories for teenage girls and young women)
Alloy (clothes for teens and college students)
Dillard's (a wide variety of clothes for women and men)
Ardene (affordable clothing for young women)
Justice (clothes and lifestyle products for young girls)
Victoria's Secret (fashionable outer and under wear for women)
Aeropostale (cute, trendy clothing for teenagers and both men and women)
Hollister (cute, more sporty look for teen girls and guys)
Abercrombie and Fitch (fashionable look for young men and women)
Delia's (cute clothes for girls and teen girls)
Clothes & Style
1 Have a sense of style. Being fashionable is important. Note that this does not necessarily mean "trendy". Try to read more fashion magazines to learn what kinds of clothing go well together. Try teen magazines like Teen Vogue and Seventeen for starters, and if you want to, move on to adult fashion magazines like Elle and In Style. Try mixing and matching the clothes in your closet. The results may not always be great, but you're bound to discover new and cute combinations. Be sure to Have Your Own Style have your own style, because it's not right to wear something that just isn't you. It's often better to have a basic personal style than to always be chasing the latest "fad" look. You could waste hundreds of dollars on clothes just for them to go out of style a few weeks later. When buying clothes to set up your wardrobe, buy the girly girl basics.
2 Slowly add special pieces to to your wardrobe that will accentuate your look. Pink is a typical girl color, but don't shy away from blacks and blues, as they can also look very cute! Your wardrobe should contain:
Light-wash and dark-wash denim skirts
Light-wash and dark-wash shorts
At least one pair of dark-wash skinny jeans.
Six plain tank-tops in the colors: pink, peach, blue, light green, lavender, and white. These will be good for layering or a weekend casual look when paired with shorts or jeans.
Cute panties. (No one will see them, of course. But they will make you feel cute, nonetheless.)
At least three comfortable pairs of shoes: one pair of workout sneakers (a girly girl is never to be seen outside the gym with sneakers), and a couple of pairs of cute shoes (heels, moccasins, flats, sandals, take your pick). Ultimately, a girly girl can never have too many shoes!
Three cute dresses. When shopping for dresses, remember: short or tight, chose only one. Do not pair them both. Go for neutral colors that can be matched with other things for fancy occasions, but also buy colorful and cute sundresses for the summer time!
Use mostly pastel colors, but neutrals go with everything. Have enough clothes in both types of colors to mix and match.
Wear clothing that fits. Don't wear low cut jeans if you don't feel comfortable, but make sure your jeans fit you and are not tight or baggy. A belt is okay, but the fit says it all. Try on lots of brands, styles, cuts, and sizes. Not every size jean will fit the same, depending on the brand. The same goes with shirts. Not tight, not baggy. If your shirt is so tight you can see your bra or you have trouble getting your shirt off of your back, then it's too tight. To see if the shirt is too small, raise your arms up. If your stomach shows when you do this, then the shirt is excessively short! Things like camisoles are supposed to fit tight however.
Remember, you don't have to buy brand name clothing. Brands are just status symbols designed to make people feel superior. Don't get caught up in that behavior, because you really don't have to spend a lot of money to be girly. Just make sure you choose clothing very carefully, so that you don't waste money. On the other hand, if you like something that is affordable and it's a brand name, don't avoid buying it just because you don't want to buy brand names.
3 Good stores to buy girly clothes are:
Forever 21 (trendy clothes and accessories for women and men)
Rue 21 (casual apparel for both women and men)
Wet Seal (moderately priced clothes and accessories for young women)
Charlotte Russe (clothing and accessories for teenage girls and young women)
Alloy (clothes for teens and college students)
Dillard's (a wide variety of clothes for women and men)
Ardene (affordable clothing for young women)
Justice (clothes and lifestyle products for young girls)
Victoria's Secret (fashionable outer and under wear for women)
Aeropostale (cute, trendy clothing for teenagers and both men and women)
Hollister (cute, more sporty look for teen girls and guys)
Abercrombie and Fitch (fashionable look for young men and women)
Delia's (cute clothes for girls and teen girls)
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